Set Goals and Be Nice!!

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My team – Endurance Reno – is a small group of people I consider elite athletes.  I am in awe of them daily – not only their accomplishments but the devotion and support we show each other. When entering a race it is with the understanding that I will most likely finish in the top 10% and often place in my age division – a fantastic accomplishment.  On my team, however, about 80% of my teammates are faster than I am and I never feel less than.

The Wednesday team is the R5K team and has several more people.  When the season started up, it was time to get to know another group of faces all ready to work hard.  That first practice several weeks ago was an inaugural run for some and the energy – as well as the nerves- ran high.  I had never met several of my shiny new teammates, but on our team, you love them anyway.  For those of us that are on the Endurance team, when we finish, we use our cool down to assist anyone slower to finish.  It’s important to have goals and push ourselves individually but there’s no reason not to be nice.

Me with Melissa

Me with Melissa at girls night out.  Nice nighttime fuzzy shot!!

When the team had a girls night out (epic fun and necessary to do again – soon!!), one of my newer teammates, Melissa, told me “I love you, girl!!  From the first practice and every single practice since, you’ve run me in!!  You are my sister!”  I hadn’t realized that every practice I paired myself with her and ran her in, but it made me so happy, since then I’ve made sure I do.  Every week I’m excited to hear her progress – she’s down 23 pounds and now considers herself a runner (rightly so!).  This week we did a timed 5K on the track.  For those of you who don’t want to count, it’s 12.5 times around.  It’s a mental battle for me to count each lap – so much more difficult than just running 3.1 miles on the street.  I finished my laps and found Melissa.  On her final lap, I jumped in with her to run her in.  It was the first time she had completed a 5K without stopping!!!!!!  Speed comes with time, but endurance is more difficult to build in my opinion and this was an enormous milestone for her.  From the woman who had never run a lap to completing a 5K without stopping in a matter of weeks is amazing.  Kind of like her!!

Melissa and Me after she finished!!!  You go girl!!

Melissa and Me after she finished!!! You go girl!!

What an amazing accomplishment!!!  I love this new girl!!!

What an amazing accomplishment!!! I love this girl!!!

 

Box Of Surprises

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One of my best friends – Kelly Kalley, owner of BodyRock Sport – did something awesome for the girls and me. She went through her closet and jewelry and instead of donating a box locally in NYC, she sent it to us. I LOVE HAND ME DOWNS!!!! All the girls got something, we had a fun “try on in Mom’s room” to see what fit whom and who would argue about jewelry. It was so fun, so appreciated, such a little treat of awesomeness.

When I was growing up, my best friend Kate was just a bit bigger than I was and her family had money which mine most definitely did not.  That was when my love of hand me downs began – I so looked forward to bags of clothes from her – and has continued into adulthood.  It is the reason why I still hit up all the second hand stores to find something wonderful for next to nothing – like my brand new with tags Columbia jacket retailed for $220 that I got for $23.  It’s how my kids remain well dressed even though I’ve rarely had the money to indulge in a trip to the mall (although that would be a blast!!).  At any rate, a box from a friend in NYC who is a fashionista running a clothing company was a rare and wonderful treat and all 6 girls (plus me!) got some new to us stuff.

4 of the girls chillin' while I lay everything out.....

4 of the girls chillin’ while I lay everything out…..

Kezia

Kezia

Ashlea with shorts and sports bra

Ashlea with shorts and sports bra

Ash adds a tank top

Ash adds a tank top

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Kezia's new glasses

Kezia’s new glasses

Gabi tank, shorts and attitude!!

Gabi tank, shorts and attitude!!

Gabi's glasses

Gabi’s glasses

 

This Is How It’s Done

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I am the oldest child. In my mind that means I’m the Best, the Boss, the Alpha & Omega, the Almighty, the One…. Don’t ask my younger sister. She’s younger and has no idea what she’s talking about.  Obviously.  That’s why I’m the oldest child.

Recently at a park, ten of the kids were together.  I tried to get a picture of them lined up from youngest to oldest – this is before my son jumped in.  Fortunately for me I don’t have to parent anymore.  Why??  Because I have also given birth to the oldest.  Bri.  Really since giving birth, I just have to sit on the couch eating bon bons and let her take over.  She rocks.  When she and I sat and looked at the pictures, we were nearly in hysterics.  This, most decidedly, is how it’s done!!

Bri, as the oldest, is telling everyone what to do.  "Seriously guys, Mom wants us lined up so get it together!!"

Bri, as the oldest, is telling everyone what to do. “Seriously guys, Mom wants us lined up so get it together!!  Oldest to youngest.  Do you not know when you were born??”

"I'm not even kidding!!  Want me to walk back down this line again??  I'll do it."

“I’m not even kidding!! Want me to walk back down this line again?? I’ll do it.  I’m serious.  Mom’s gonna want to blog this and paste us all over Facebook so make it look good.”

"OK awesome. Everyone smile.  Mom, hurry up.  They can't hold this for long."

“OK awesome. Everyone smile. Mom, hurry up. They can’t hold this for long.  Hurry up, seriously.  My face is already killing me from smiling.”

Prom Season

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Yes, I’m a hairdresser and No, I don’t do updo’s. I don’t like to do them. I’m not great at them. Blah, blah, blah…. But I can do braids and all sorts of stuff especially if it’s for my daughter….

Olivia went to prom this past weekend. I did her makeup and her friends and some hair. Weird how they grow up but I’m still frozen at 28 despite what my birth certificate says….. I went on a 6 mile run prior to meeting up and beautifying. I feel like I smelled lovely and made them look better.  They’re welcome.

Workin' the magic

Workin’ the magic

I'm a dork

I’m a dork

She is beautiful

She is beautiful

Me, Ryan, Olivia, Alan (her dad)

Me, Ryan, Olivia, Alan (her dad)

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Hard to make this better....

Hard to make this better….

Ready to go

Ready to go

Pictures From Some Runs and A Movie

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I’ve had some great runs this weekend. I’m still struggling with my schedule for some reason.  I need to be better at getting in one long, slow run.  Since being on the team, it’s hard for me to go run alone which I really just need to get over.  Since track practice on Wednesday, I’ve done two runs.  One at 5.6 miles and another 10K at the river.  Both good runs – not too fast, not too difficult.  The weather is fantastic which makes it so nice to get out.  No convincing me to be outside when it warms up.  I’m on it!!  Naturally, being a sales rep for BodyRock Sport and being blessed to have Kelly as one of my closest friends, I’m showing off some of the line.  I became a sales rep after purchasing and loving my first sports bra.  It’s amazing what happens when you believe in a company, their products and the people behind them.  On a run I don’t want to worry about anything peripheral like headphone cords, watch, hair, clothes so it’s good to use products that work.  As usual, I’m my own photographer……

WORK!!!  Done with clients - what to do, what to do.....

WORK!!! Done with clients – what to do, what to do…..

Impromptu run from work to Reno Running Company to say hi to Bri and then back!!!

Impromptu run from work to Reno Running Company to say hi to Bri and then back!!!

In my Complete Nutrition tank - just off of work from there and on to a run!!

In my Complete Nutrition tank – just off of work from there and on to a run!!

Ready to run by the river

Ready to run by the river

LOVE BodyRock Sport capris!!  Nothing softer in my closet!!

LOVE BodyRock Sport capris!! Nothing softer in my closet!!

On the trampoline soaking up some warmth.  BodyRock Sport bikini bottoms paired with a cammo top

On the trampoline soaking up some warmth. BodyRock Sport bikini bottoms paired with a cammo top

Yes, BodyRock Sport capris with a T-shirt and light jacket for a trip to the movies.

Yes, BodyRock Sport capris with a T-shirt and light jacket for a trip to the movies.

 

Workin’ It At The Track!!!

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Track practice is the hardest thing for me. I don’t know why but holy cow I struggle every time with it. Coach takes pictures with his cool, new phone and I pilfer them. You can see how much I want to just curl up and die…  These workouts make me feel stronger, more capable, like a running badass pretty much.  Even though I don’t feel fast all the time, I’m still gettin’ it done.  Without a team supporting me and a coach telling us what we need to do I would never work this hard.  When I spent years running on my own, I felt like I was doing a good job (and I was) but nothing like what I’m doing now.  Running with people – even if you’re all at different speeds – isn’t better just for the accountability.  It’s such a positive, healthy, fun environment. 

I know Sam will pass down words of wisdom in his dry way, Jason will surprise me, Olivia will tolerate all my hugs and be even more positive than I am passing down words of wisdom and pointing out everything that I’m doing well, Brynda will be her straightforward, badass self, Dianna will be quiet and persevere impressing us all, Abby and Sarah will make me feel absolute awe, Lupe will look effortless every single time he laps me, Manny will push hard, I’ll catch up with Melissa and see where she’s at and we encourage each other, Theresa will quietly get her workout done with aplomb as will her husband Caesar, Pete will encourage me and allow me to say what I’m discouraged about, Coach will yell words of encouragement and make me laugh while taking horrible pictures…..  I could go on and on about how this group that is a seemingly odd combination of backgrounds, careers and personalities work so seamlessly together.  That running, biking, swimming, staying healthy and pushing our limits is the common denominator in our relationships with each other.  As odd a combination as we may seem, we work together in perfect harmony.  Hard???  Absolutely.  Worth it??  Most definitely!!

Nice bloating.  Very sexy

Nice bloating. Very sexy

Coach asked me to smile.  I was on one of my final laps.  So that at least made me happy!!

Coach asked me to smile. I was on one of my final laps. So that at least made me happy!!

 

Family Time

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We are winding down the slew of birthdays we have in a 2 month period. We had 2 of the kids parties at a park this past weekend. These pictures represent what some of my most important things are. My family.

Group Run

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Team run over 6 miles. Felt great. I love running. We ran intervals which is probably one of my favorite things. The time flies by because you concentrate on everything else except distance….. I have the best, most elite team who inspire me to be better every day, great conversation with Kristen and a chance to push myself!!

Me again!!

Me!!

I ordered a large iced tea at the drive through.  I never go to fast food so I wasn't expecting a FREAKING GALLON!!!! Holy cow it's ridiculous how big things are!

I ordered a large iced tea at the drive through. I never go to fast food so I wasn’t expecting a FREAKING GALLON!!!! Holy cow it’s ridiculous how big things are!

A Perfect Run

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I’m not a night person. At. All. No question. After dinner I clean up immediately because I know the second I sit down I’m toast. By 8pm I’d like to be melting into the couch ignoring the TV (because even if I’m interested it doesn’t last long), catching up on social media and writing so at 9pm I can commence drooling on myself.  Chris is a night person and he sometimes goes running at night and – seeing that he’s in complete denial of my lack of enthusiasm – thinks I’ll believe it’s a good idea.  A couple nights ago, I gave in.  At 9:20pm, I laced up and decided the 5K loop would be perfect to take Kalley on.

It's blurry because that's how my brain felt when I took this.  I'm a consummate photographer

It’s blurry because that’s how my brain felt when I took this. I’m a consummate photographer.  BodyRock Sport (OF COURSE!!!) because it’s the best by far which is why I’m a sales rep….

It was dark.  Really dark with only a sliver of a crescent moon.  If all the streetlights worked it would have been better but this is a great loop.  Kalley was ecstatic to go -she loves when I get my running shoes on and grab the leash and even more ecstatic when we get in the car. The bike path is a standard 4′ wide and separated from the street by several feet.  I’m not sure if it was due to the dark, the time of day (I usually run with her in the morning), the fact that there wasn’t much traffic, very few other people or animals and we were off the road a little (most likely a combination of everything), but Kalley was on her A game.  Usually she pulls a lot the first half mile and then reacts to every vehicle and animal with good heeling in between. I remind myself that it takes work to have a well trained dog and she’s still a puppy…..

This run was different.  She heeled pretty much right out of the gate, she did her crouch and chase with vehicles only a couple times and not nearly with as much force, when dogs in the neighborhood barked she turned her head and cocked her ears but otherwise didn’t respond.  Kalley was completely tuned in to me and the run.  I didn’t have to remind her to heel very many times, there were only a couple of reprimands and I found myself constantly saying, “Good girl, Kalley” in utter amazement.  As we headed up the final hill and our 3.1 was coming to an end I got choked up.  It was quiet, it was dark, it was peaceful and Kalley and I were so in synch that I didn’t want it to end.

I’ve run with dogs off and on for over 20 years but it’s been a few years since I’ve had that companionship and in that moment I realized how much I’d missed it.  How amazing it feels.  How important it is that I’ve been so consistent with her training and what a great dog she’s becoming.  How much I like having her there with me loving the run.

I don't allow dogs on the couch.....  But I get that she just wants to hang out with me.  After all, we are running buddies

I don’t allow dogs on the couch….. But I get that she just wants to hang out with me. After all, we are running buddies

Compound It

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Most people have an understanding of compound interest. At the very least it makes sense when purchasing a car or a house. It’s the beastly number followed by a % that makes you’re cute little house go from $180,000 to $5,678,326 after 30 years.  I adore compound interest!!  All life can be related to this theory.

Last night while running, my lovely teammate Kristen – who is the same age as my older daughters so unbeknownst to her, she has been adopted into our family – told me I’m in good shape and asked my secret.  Since she’s a business major I asked her to think about compound interest…..

Be confident

Be confident.   Embrace who you are.  Love yourself and be positive.  Use compound interest for good things

Food, exercise, friends, relationships, children.  Pick anything.  Compound interest will work for or against you.  If you have friends who are negative, complaining, full of drama, always in a pinch, borrowing your things and not returning them, etc…. It may not seem like a big deal on a daily basis but a little bit over time compounds to make a huge difference.  Food is the same way.  Make good choices or poor choices and no matter what:  a little bit over a long period makes a difference.

One of the few times I won!!!

One of the few times I won!!!

This is my theory on how I’ve maintained staying in shape.  I’m not generally the fastest, the best, the trophy holder in anything fitness related that I’ve done.  Sure, I’ve won a couple times, but overall I’m not going pro, not elite.  Since I graduated at 17 years old and put on that college 15lbs, I realized that a little bit (in that case bad cafeteria food choices) over a period of time makes a big difference.  The 15 pounds came off and since then I’ve tried to live my life based on compound interest.  A little bit over an extended period really starts to add up.

Getting pregnant, having an unexpected accident or surgery are difficult to bounce back from but with that physical foundation and all my banked years of good health, it’s not quite as hard.  People are obsessed with “cheat days” or “cheat meals” but I know that with all my years of healthy eating, I don’t need to be concerned.  An off day isn’t going to break the bank so to speak.  A poor choice is just that – it’s something you did it does not define who you are.

I’ve tried to minimize if not eliminate people the same way.  I do not like the drama, the chaos, the stress of people in my life who are not positive.  I in no way feel as though I’m better than anyone, however I do feel that I’m at a point in my life where I’ve grown past that and have become intolerant.  I am comfortable enough with myself to have very few great friends who make me want to be better than I am instead of surrounding myself with many people who drag me down and I’ve used this theory for the majority of my life.

Sure, crappy things happen.  You can’t control other people.  Some days suck.  Life gets thrown at you no matter how hard you try to rise above it.  We have emotions.  We make poor choices.  We add to the negative compound interest.  Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you want the compound interest to work for you or against you.  Who do you want to be??  Then start becoming that person.  Not all at once.  But a little bit, every day makes a big difference.

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